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I thought I was through with the hiding and lying
The sneaks in the drinks, the tiptoes in the dark
You know the ones, where you wake up suddenly
Wondering what is wrong, and just why he is sighing
When you ask for a drink of the drink in his hand
Thinking a soda would be nice and is easy for him to share
A normal thing, in fact, to share food and drink, with each other
As a matter of fact, it’s so normal, the thought was bland.
And you know. It was a bland thought until he hesitated
Hmm, then all the bells in my body went off like Big Ben
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He’s lying, I know it, he knows it, but only one of us know why
The intuition is strong, even when I was asleep and now I am aggravated.
Damn I hate that,, the sleep was more important, don’t want to know
or even to know that I know.. But there is that damn psst. The pop-top
Tells on him every time. But that wasn’t it, the damn top woke me like thunder
It was the hesitation when I asked for a drink that set the nerves tingling head to toe,
Clink, clink
He thought I was asleep, turned off the light, even, to check to see if I would notice
and honestly, I didn’t , so good show, Joe, and a good trick this time.
I did get some sleep I needed so badly this night, it’s 2.45 am, I got a whole 3 hours
Much more than my normal amount of sleep, usually I sleep less than the prairie lotus
And just as my heavy eye -lids start to fall, dreaming of the beautiful red of the lotus, prairie or no, BANG, on with the TV again. Sleep is gone for tonight. Take notice.
© 3.00 am May 24, 2010, abbey.nightowl
The Purl
The purl of the river babbled around her
As the purl of her hand knit sweater unraveled
Similar to the unraveling her life started
Those many years ago when
The first one broke the foundation.
The foundation of the marriage
With the lust in his heart
When he gave in or when he lusted?
Who is to say?
It says, “to lust in your heart is
The same sin as to commit the sin”
I wonder, has he learned the lesson too?
The purl in the sweater that unraveled
Was the last purl she ever raveled
She put up her yarns and needles
And traded for bugs and Beatles.
Something she had no interest in before
As she listened hymns in reverent
Worship of the God they had sworn to speak of
For the rest of their lives, lies, lust, which first?
Now he’s gone,, she’s gone
And the children didn’t keep
They fell apart in their own way
One up, one down, both gone
And this Mother’s day once more
Was spent with loneliness
Unrequited, despite the efforts of the second
Who tried his best to wake me
From a sleep begun, never to be undone.
For sleep, when gotten, covers all.
© Abbey Nightowl Mother’s Day, Sunday May 9, 2010
I was having a conversation with someone about what exactly “morality” is. Is it a law that must be obeyed? And if not obeyed, then are the consequences set my an all elusive God? Or are they preordained for us to just “think of them when the occasion arises? The great philosophers have been arguing this subject for years. I searched google research department and found what I think is a very own to ear very understandable explanation of morality and why we lie up to it.
Please enjoy this article written with no author listed.
© Abbry thinking deeply for answers.
The moral argument appeals to the existence of moral laws as evidence of God’s existence. According to this argument, there couldn’t be such a thing as morality without God; to use the words that Sartre attributed to Dostoyevsky, “If there is no God, then everything is permissible.” That there are moral laws, then, that not everything is permissible, proves that God exists.
Some facts are facts about the way that the world is. It is a fact that cats eat mice because there are lots of animals out there, cats, and lots of them eat mice. It is a fact that Paris is the capital of France because there exists a city called Paris that is the capital of France. For most facts, there are objects in the world that make them true.
Morality Consists of a Set of Commands
Moral facts aren’t like that. The fact that we ought to do something about the problem of famine isn’t a fact about the way that the world is, it’s a fact about the way that the world ought to be. There is nothing out there in the physical world that makes moral facts true.
This is because moral facts aren’t descriptive, they’re prescriptive; moral facts have the form of commands.
Commands Imply a Commander
There are some things that can’t exist unless something else exists along with them. There can’t be something that is being carried unless there is something else that is carrying it. There can’t be something that is popular unless there are lots of people that like it.
Commands are like this; commands can’t exist without something else existing that commanded them.
The moral argument seeks to exploit this fact; If moral facts are a kind a command, the moral argument asks, then who commanded morality? To answer this question, the moral argument suggests that we look at the importance of morality.
Morality is Ultimately Authoritative
Morality is of over-riding importance. If someone morally ought to do something, then this over-rules any other consideration that might come into play. It might be in my best interests not to give any money to charity, but morally I ought to, so all things considered I ought to. It might be in my best interests to pretend that I’m too busy to see my in-laws on Wednesday so that I can watch the game, but morally I ought not, so all things considered I ought not.
If someone has one reason to do one thing, but morally ought to do another thing, then all things considered they ought to do the other thing. Morality over-rules everything. Morality has ultimate authority.
Ultimately Authoritative Commands Imply an Ultimately Authoritative Commander
Commands, though, are only as authoritative as the person that commands them. If I were to command everyone to pay extra tax so that we could spend more money on the police force, then no one would have to do so. I just don’t have the authority to issue that command. If the government were to command everyone to pay extra tax so that we could spend more money on the police force, though, then that would be different, because it does have that authority.
As morality has more authority than any human person or institution, the moral argument suggests, morality can’t have been commanded by any human person or institution. As morality has ultimate authority, as morality over-rules everything, morality must have been commanded by someone who has authority over everything. The existence of morality thus points us to a being that is greater than any of us and that rules over all creation.
What the Moral Argument Proves
If the moral argument can be defended against the various objections that have been raised against it, then it proves the existence of an author of morality, of a being that has authority over and that actively rules over all creation. Together with the ontological argument, the first cause argument, and the argument from design, this would give us proof that there is a perfect, necessary, and eternal being that created the universe with life in mind and has the authority to tell us how we are to run it. The correct response to this would be to seek God’s will and to practice it.
The Italian Secret to a Long Marriage:
At St. Mary‘s Catholic Church they have a weekly husbands’ marriage
seminar.
At the session last week, the priest asked Giuseppe, who said he was
approaching his 50th wedding anniversary, to take a few minutes and
share some insight into how he had managed to stay married to the same
woman all these years.
Giuseppe replied to the assembled husbands, “Wella, I’ve tried to treat
her nicea, spenda da money on her, but besta of all is, I tooka her to
Italy for the 25th anniversary!”
The priest responded, “Giuseppe, you are an amazing inspiration to all
the husbands here! Please tell us what you are planning for your wife
for your 50th anniversary?”
Giuseppe proudly replied, “I’m agonna go get her.”
Sofft focus and depth of field enhance the look of the scarf around her neck
